A friend recommended the book Cozy, The Art of Arranging Yourself in the World, to me.  I didn’t expect much since I had already dipped into Hygge, the Danish Secrets To Happy Living.  Nice, but not enlightening.  Cozy on the other hand enlightened me. After reading the table of contents, I expected even less.  But being a good boy, I read the first chapters, then the next.  Author, Isabel Gillies, starts out by suggesting that to be cozy you need to know yourself.  Yeah yeah… I know myself.  But I was surprised at what I learned, some life changing revelations. One of …