A member writes that she is a bit overwhelmed by all the stuff on the internet she has to choose from. I know you have the same pulls on your time and attention that she does. Where should you and she spend your time?    Obviously, I teach people how to discern.   Here’s what I do and what I recommend to members and patients:   One) Recognize you can’t do it all or have it all. This is why you must learn to discern.    Two) When I turned 50, I realized there were more things that I wanted to …